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Thursday, May 14, 2026

No More Forgive and Forget


What does it take to break the cycle of sex abuse and silence in a culture where men hold all the power? Keep Quiet and Forgive is a compelling PBS documentary about Amish survivors, and there are many unmistakable similarities with other high-control, isolationist communities.

"I want to say to the Amish community that if you are not willing to protect your children, then we will. To the Amish children, I want to say that you are not alone. I am here with you, along with all the survivors. To us, you are worth the risk of coming forward. To us, you are worth all the justice in the world." ~ LIZZIE HERSHBERGER survivor and author of “Behind Blue Curtains”

 



 

OALC survivors of sex abuse can find support at Voices Unmuted - OALC Abuse Awareness & Support

If you know of other resources for Laestadians (or former Laestadians), please share in the comments.